Bribery is an awesome tool to have in your arsenal. I do not use it often and it doesn't always work, but if the situation is right and I know it will motivate, it works wonders. Liam let me hold him in the 2 ft. pool today. Only after I told him I would get him a pretzel at the snack bar (which I was going to do anyway) He agreed, on the condition that I was not to get any part of him wet, which was fine by me. Just getting him to hover above water was a BIG step. It only lasted about 10 seconds before he wanted to have his feet back on the pavement, but I'll take it. He got a pretzel. Later that day, I was swimming with Thomas in the 3ft. while Liam voluntarily sat in a chair on the side baking in the sun. How wonderful convenient it would be, if all three of us would swim in the same pool and be happy. I tried bribery again. After negotiating, he decided that I could hold him in the three foot and get some of his body wet for a ring pop- SOLD! I proceeded cautiously and had great success by playing the Motor Boat game with him. He was laughing and getting wetter than I thought he would. It lasted about two minutes and he got a ring pop :) Successful day!
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